TV-Church all day (today) and so many heartwarming messages. Here is the link to an interview that addressed an experience in my life. EXACTLY (almost). I rarely speak of it but this “problem” is reportedly prevalent in the Church. I, too, “hate divorce”! Occasionally, I’m asked when my husband passed away and I honestly answer “1983.” But it was after a divorce; I rebelled against his abuse. I believed I was marrying a Christ-centered man–a former Presbyterian minister–but he was “self-centered.”