Facing my demons

If you read many of my blogs (in TabTeardropTravels), you know that I have been attempting to downsize.  I have far too many possessions!!  Furthermore, it is difficult to part with things that “I may need,” and memorabilia, and heirlooms.  Praise God, I don’t fall in the category of a “hoarder”; my apartment is not wall-to-wall with clutter.  But I am limited and feel the burden of “too much baggage.”  I loved the simple lifestyle while living in my tiny travel trailer.  I didn’t give the PODS storage container–full of my possessions–a second thought during the fifteen months I was in the T@B.  The payment was an automatic debit from my checking account so I didn’t have to write a check every month.  Now I rarely travel with my trailer because I feel compelled to stay home and work on my downsizing project.

Ten tips for controlling clutter.  Copied in total from the website.  Please read this message also: Clutter and depression.

Modern Americans face more choices in one trip to the grocery store than our grandparents faced in their entire lifetimes. All that freedom of choice is reflected in most of our homes, littered with more furnishings and gadgets than we need or want. Stuff is a major impediment to becoming wabi, and it’s one of the hardest ones to break through. Most of us have been programmed to acquire more, more and more from the time we could speak. It’s how our economies roll.

“We live in a world overflowing with our own productions, a world in which objects besiege us, suffocate us, and very often distance us from one another both physically and mentally,” Italian designer Claudia Dona wrote in 1988. “They make us forget how to feel, to touch, to think.”

Take a good look around your house. Chances are, you have more stuff than you need. Are you okay with having a TV in every room (how did that happen?) or the glass duck collection that got totally out of hand? Do you need those sweaters that might fit again some day or the wild-haired, legless Barbies languishing in their own messy Barbie houses? You know, deep down, that the clutter you’ve parked in your home is as destructive to your well being as the constant buzz of a nearby highway. The thought of actually doing something about it, however, is paralyzing.

Your home doesn’t have to be prison-like or monkish, completely without ornament or whimsy. It simply shouldn’t be suffused with extraneous details. Clutter smudges clarity, both physically and metaphorically. Things you’re holding onto because they were expensive, because they were gifts from your mother-in-law, or because you might need them some day are all just getting in your way. In a wabi-sabi home, space and light are the most desirable ornaments.

Uncluttering is common sense; there’s no magic to it. All the experts offer the same basic advice, in one form or another. It goes like this:

1. Don’t try to unclutter your entire house at once. Start with a drawer or a shelf and move on to problem areas (such as the garage or the basement) once you’ve had some smaller success.

2. Maintenance is key. Spend fifteen minutes per day cleaning up daily detritus before it becomes overwhelming.

3. Take everything out of a drawer or closet and spread it out in front of you. You’ll eliminate more and organize what’s left more efficiently if you can see it all at once. (This also gives you a chance to clear out the dust and run a damp rag over the surface.)

4. Mark four boxes or bags “Keep,” “Give Away,” “Throw Away,” and “Hold for One Year.” (The last one’s for items you don’t need or use but just can’t bear to part with yet. If you haven’t touched these things in a year, their time has come.)

5. If in doubt, throw it out. Give it to Goodwill or any of the charitable organizations who send trucks around to collect it. Or give it away on Craig’s List. Nothing moves faster than the stuff in the “Free” listings.

6. Allow only three items on each surface.

7. Just say no to refrigerator magnets. They encourage clutter.

8. Keep clutter contained. Use baskets and bowls to collect mail, pens and pencils, loose change and all the other odds and ends that collect on counters and tabletops.

9. Storage is key to containing clutter. Storage areas should make up at least ten percent of your home’s total square footage and be placed so that you can store items where they’re used. (If you can’t get rid of the stuff, hide it well.)

10. Furnishings that do double duty as storage help minimize clutter. A wicker chest holding blankets can serve as a coffee table in the TV room; a small chest of drawers makes a great end table.

Related:
How Clutter Affects You

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One comment on “Facing my demons

  1. Wayne and Deborah Martin's avatar Wayne and Deborah Martin says:

    Lorraine:

    As you know we have been living in our RV full time for over a year. We wanted to share that we are not missing our stuff. Going from 3000 square feet to less than 300 has been a great experience. We are free, We have made our RV our home and love the life.

    We hear your heart. Blessings Wayne and Deborah

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